Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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