It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArchitects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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