Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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