What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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