Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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