Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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