We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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