Alain de Botton on bitterness
Alain de Botton234 quotes“Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.”
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Norah RoseNorah Rose A memory is a star or a stain.
Aneena BijuAneena Biju Love her, but don’t forget to leave her wild.
Little PaulsonLittle Paulson Do your own thing and live your way of happiness.
Emily BockEmily Bock I’ve experienced departure far too much to have the courage and call anyone my own.
Mira R. AridiMira R. Aridi More often than I am not, all I need is the rise of my own lungs – I am already complete.
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Worry is not believing God will get it right, and bitterness is believing God got it wrong.
Timothy KellerTimothy Keller We have known the bitterness of defeat and the exultation of triumph, and from both we have learned there can be no turning back. We must go forward to preserve in peace what we won in war. A new era is upon us.
Douglas MacArthurDouglas MacArthur I address you with neither rancor nor bitterness in the fading twilight of life, with but one purpose in mind: to serve my country. The issues are global and so interlocked that to consider the problems of one sector, oblivious to those of another, is but to court disaster for the whole.
Douglas MacArthurDouglas MacArthur I don’t feel bitterness, I don’t feel anger towards anybody. Fighting is never emotional to me.
Conor McGregorConor McGregor We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton I have loved and bitterness left me for that hour. But there are times when love itself is bitter.
Agnes SmedleyAgnes Smedley One can’t measure the life with its bitterness but with it’s sweetness and sweetness is what one must find in Jesus Words.
Aftab AlamAftab Alam
