Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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