The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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