All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
ALAIN DE BOTTONGood sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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