I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
AIMEE BENDERThe writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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