We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
AIMEE BENDERI am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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