She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
AIMEE BENDERThere’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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