I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
AIMEE BENDERTo see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it’s giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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