I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
AIMEE BENDERGlen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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