When leaders lead in ways that people’s brains can follow, good results follow as well.
HENRY CLOUDA culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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Diligence is not easy, but we can’t reach our goals without it.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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One of the worst things you can die with is potential.
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
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It is true that you get what you tolerate.
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Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.
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When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform, sends fuel to the brain.
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When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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