If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
HENRY CLOUDWhen you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform, sends fuel to the brain.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that’s present.
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In a very real way, ownership is the essence of leadership. When you are ridiculously in charge, then you own whatever happens in a company, school.
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You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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The human heart will seek to be known, understood, and connected with above all else. If you do not connect, the ones you care about will find someone who will.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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Dating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
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