The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
ADAM PHILLIPSTo grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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You write to find out what you believe.
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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We are children for a very long time.
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