Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
ADAM PHILLIPSTo grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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The child [uses] ‘doubt about food to hide doubt about love.’
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People change, but there really are limits.
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We are children for a very long time.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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