The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
ADAM PHILLIPSThe vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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Excesses of appetite are self-cures for feelings of hopelessness. ..
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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You write to find out what you believe.
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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It is as if to say: if these are not valued – if these forms of wanting and feeling and speaking and doing – are not cultivated and encouraged and rewarded in the child, then the child will be mad.
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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