One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
ADAM PHILLIPSTragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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We have been taught to wish for it, but the wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as adults ,
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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Tragic heroes are failed pragmatists. Their ends are unrealistic and their means are impractical.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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Sanity, in other words, becomes a pressing preoccupation as soon as we recognize the importance of recognition.
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We are children for a very long time.
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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