One thing you discover in psychoanalytic treatment is the limits of what you can change about yourself or your life.
ADAM PHILLIPSBelieving in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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Lovers, of course, are notoriously frantic epistemologists, second only to paranoiacs (and analysts) as readers of signs and wonders.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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Believing in religion is like believing that adulthood is the solution to childhood.
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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To our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need.
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The child can find out what the object ..might be only by finding ..obstacles to its access
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We are tyrannized by our blind spots, and by whatever it is about ourselves that we find unacceptable.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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To grow up is to discover what one is unequal to.
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There is nothing more terrorizing than the possibility that nothing is hidden.
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Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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