When you think that someone or something other than yourself needs to change, you’re mentally out of your business.
BYRON KATIEIf you think the cause of your problem is ‘out there,’ you’ll try to solve it from the outside. Take the shortcut: solve it from within.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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Any story that you tell about yourself causes suffering. There is no authentic story.
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We begin to not be human, as we’ve known it, any longer. But to be just creative minds and action, whereas right now we’re confused minds and actions, and our environment mirrors that back to us.
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It’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we seek what we already have.
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Spare yourself from seeking love, approval, or appreciation-from anyone. And watch what happens in reality, just for fun.
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Any thought of discomfort or stress is an alarm that lets you know you’re believing an untrue thought.
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I came to see that the world is always as it should be, whether I opposed it or not.
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Thoughts are just what is. They appear. They’re innocent. They’re not personal.
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Fear has only two causes: the thought of losing what you have or the thought of not getting what you want.
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After you’ve been doing inquiry for a while, if you have the thought “She doesn’t love me,” you just get the immediate turnaround with a smile: “Oh, I’m not loving myself in this moment.”
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When we’re not defending and justifying, and we’re being very still, our answers can and do shock us.
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Our parents, our children, our spouses, and our friends will continue to press every button we have, until we realize what it is that we don’t want to know about ourselves, yet. They will point us to our freedom every time.
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It’s not what happens in life that bothers us. It’s what we’re believing about it that bothers us.
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Nothing belongs to me. Everything comes and goes. Serenity is an open door.
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Until you can love what is – everything, including the apparent violence and craziness – you’re separate from the world, and you’ll see it as dangerous and frightening.
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Whatever it takes for you to find your freedom, that’s what you’ve lived.
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