People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
TARA BRACHMindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Through the sacred art of pausing, we develop the capacity to stop hiding, to stop running away from our experience. We begin to trust in our natural intelligence, in our naturally wise heart, in our capacity to open to whatever arises.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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When we open to love, we become love.
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Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor – without expecting something in return.
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
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Paying attention is the most basic and profound expression of love.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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