You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
PEMA CHODRONLet difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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