Sometimes you have to lose everything in order to gain yourself.
IYANLA VANZANT
IYANLA VANZANT
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Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you make a decision and a commitment to do something good for yourself, it is like dropping a pebble in a pond. It has a rippling effect. The firmer the decision, the stronger the frequency and wider the range of things that will be reached.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you can tell the story and it doesn’t bring up any pain, you know it is healed.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant It is not your duty or responsibility to change the minds of other people. The nature of their thinking is advanced or limited by their experience. In your presence, they have an opportunity to learn about you and, perhaps, to grow.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Just for today, allow yourself to embrace all that you are every moment. Know that you are a vessel of light. Allow yourself to release all doubts about your ability, the mistakes of the past, the fear of the future.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Acceptance means that you know, regardless of what happened, that there is something bigger than you at work. It also means you know that you are okay and that you will continue to be okay.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you’re the strong one, people don’t give you permission to hurt.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant If you are afraid to take a chance, take one anyway. What you don’t do can create the same regrets as the mistakes you make.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant If you should encounter angry or unkind actions today, take a deep breath, reach deep within and greet the lack of love with love.
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