Iyanla Vanzant on need
Iyanla Vanzant71 quotes“Many of us have a need to be right. We then set out to make ourselves right by making someone else wrong. We must get right with ourselves. Once we do, we will have so much to do, we will not have time to keep track of who is wrong.”
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Have the courage to be exactly who you are without apology. Admit your mistakes without beating yourself up. Release all shame! Release all guilt! You cannot live if you are hiding behind what was. Focus on what is, right now, and that is you!
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Everything happens when it needs to happen; everyone is always where they need to be. You will never miss out on what is meant for you, even if it has to come to you in a roundabout way.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant You will stumble at time, forget what you want, fall headfirst into your old habits and beliefs. Fear not! Always remember to be patient and loving with yourself and others because that is what God does all the time.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Life doesn’t actually knock you down. It does, however, provide you with many opportunities to evaluate your standing in life: what you stand on, what you stand for, how you stand within yourself and for yourself.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant It’s important that we share our experiences with other people. Your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else. When you tell your story, you free yourself and give other people permission to acknowledge their own story.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant You do not have to love what is going on in your life, but you must accept that it, whatever it is, is going on. As long as you do not accept reality, you are powerless to define the role you will play.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Gratitude is like a magnet; the more grateful you are, the more you will receive to be grateful for.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Lives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Everybody does not have to like you. That is not their job. Liking you is not anyone’s purpose in life except yours.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Nothing destroys self-worth, self-acceptance and self-love faster than denying what you feel. Without feelings, you would not know where you are in life. Nor would you know what areas you need to work on. Honor your feelings. Allow yourself to feel them.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Every day is your day if you claim it. If you wait for somebody else to make it for you, you’re going to be disappointed.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Criticism does not make you smarter or better than the one you are criticizing. In fact, the stuff you are critical of in others is the same stuff you don’t like about yourself.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have been hurt or forgotten, let it go! Ask yourself, what good does it do for me to hold on to this?
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you make a decision and a commitment to do something good for yourself, it is like dropping a pebble in a pond. It has a rippling effect. The firmer the decision, the stronger the frequency and wider the range of things that will be reached.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you can tell the story and it doesn’t bring up any pain, you know it is healed.
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Alfred HitchcockAlfred Hitchcock People don’t need Christians to act like we always have it together. People need us to be real! What kind of healing would come if we all just got real before God and others?
Beth MooreBeth Moore I have a great need for Christ: I have a great Christ for my need.
Charles SpurgeonCharles Spurgeon A person who is really saved by Grace does not need to be told that he is under solemn obligations to serve Christ. The new life within him tells him that. Instead of regarding it as a burden, he gladly surrenders himself, body, soul, and spirit, to the Lord.
Charles SpurgeonCharles Spurgeon In order to realize the worth of the anchor we need to feel the stress of the storm.
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