If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
TUTU DESMONDDear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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