If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
TUTU DESMONDA person is a person through other persons.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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