When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
TUTU DESMONDThough wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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