Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
TUTU DESMONDLanguage is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
TUTU DESMONDThe path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
TUTU DESMONDWe are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
TUTU DESMONDDear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
TUTU DESMONDMuch depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
TUTU DESMONDWe may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
TUTU DESMONDIn the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
TUTU DESMONDIn the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
TUTU DESMONDWe do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
TUTU DESMONDWe have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
TUTU DESMONDThough wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
TUTU DESMONDA person is a person through other persons.
TUTU DESMONDDiscovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
TUTU DESMONDYou show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
TUTU DESMONDA person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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