Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
TUTU DESMONDDifferences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need for one another.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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