Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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