Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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