If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
TUTU DESMONDWe are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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