We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
TUTU DESMONDI do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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