We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
TUTU DESMONDWhen the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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