Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
TUTU DESMONDWhen the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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