The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
THOMAS MERTONLet us come alive to the splendor that is all around us and see the beauty in ordinary things.
More Thomas Merton Quotes
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I see no contradiction between Buddhism and Christianity. I intend to become as good a Buddhist as I can.
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Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time.
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For each one of us, there is only one thing necessary: to fulfill our own destiny, according to God’s will, to be what God wants us to be.
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You do not need to know precisely what is happening, or exactly where it is all going. What you need is to recognize the possibilities and challenges offered by the present moment, and to embrace them with courage, faith and hope.
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Ours is a time of anxiety because we have willed it to be so. Our anxiety is not imposed on us by force from outside. We impose it on our world and upon one another from within ourselves.
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The purpose of our lives is to find the purpose of our lives.
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Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone – we find it with another.
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Fear narrows the little entrance of our heart. It shrinks up our capacity to love. It freezes up our power to give ourselves.
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Not all of us are called to be hermits, but all of us need enough silence and solitude in our lives to enable the deeper voice of our own self to be heard at least occasionally.
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No one is so wrong as the man who knows all the answers.
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If you yourself are at peace, then there is at least some peace in the world.
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What do I mean by loving ourselves properly? I mean first of all, desiring to live, accepting life as a very great gift and a great good, not because of what it gives us, but because of what it enables us to give to others.
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Our idea of God tells us more about ourselves than about Him.
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Gratitude takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder.
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Finally I am coming to the conclusion that my highest ambition is to be what I already I am.
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