The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
THOMAS MERTON
THOMAS MERTON
Thomas Merton on beginning
Thomas Merton76 quotes“The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.”
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St Francis De SalesSt Francis De Sales Every moment is a new beginning.
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