What do I mean by loving ourselves properly? I mean first of all, desiring to live, accepting life as a very great gift and a great good, not because of what it gives us, but because of what it enables us to give to others.
THOMAS MERTONTo say that I am made in the image of God is to say that love is the reason for my existence, for God is love. Love is my true identity. Selflessness is my true self. Love is my true character. Love is my name.
More Thomas Merton Quotes
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If you yourself are at peace, then there is at least some peace in the world.
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Nothing has ever been said about God that hasn’t already been said better by the wind in the pine trees.
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Compassion is the keen awareness of the interdependence of all things.
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We are not converted only once in our lives but many times and this endless series of conversions and inner revolutions leads to our transformation.
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We live on the brink of disaster because we do not know how to let life alone. We do not respect the living and fruitful contradictions and paradoxes of which true life is full.
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No one is so wrong as the man who knows all the answers.
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We are not at peace with others because we are not at peace with ourselves, and we are not at peace with ourselves because we are not at peace with God.
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For each one of us, there is only one thing necessary: to fulfill our own destiny, according to God’s will, to be what God wants us to be.
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Do not be too quick to condemn the man who no longer believes in God: for it is perhaps your own coldness and avarice and mediocrity and materialism and selfishness that have chilled his faith.
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Every one of us is shadowed by an illusory person: a false Self. We are not very good at recognizing illusions, least of all the ones we cherish about ourselves.
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How can I be sincere if I am constantly changing my mind to conform with the shadow of what I think others expect of me?
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Our idea of God tells us more about ourselves than about Him.
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People may spend their whole lives climbing the ladder of success only to find, once they reach the top, that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.
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A life is either all spiritual or not spiritual at all. No man can serve two masters. Your life is shaped by the end you live for. You are made in the image of what you desire.
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The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves.
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Love is not a matter of getting what you want. Quite the contrary. The insistence on always having what you want, on always being satisfied, on always being fulfilled, makes love impossible.
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The man who sweats under his mask, whose role makes him itch with discomfort, who hates the division in himself, is already beginning to be free.
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Our real journey in life is interior; It is a matter of growth, deepening, and of an ever greater surrender to the creative action of love and grace in our hearts. Never was it more necessary to respond to that action.
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The man who sweats under his mask, whose role makes him itch with discomfort, who hates the division in himself, is already beginning to be free.
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Let us come alive to the splendor that is all around us and see the beauty in ordinary things.
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Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone – we find it with another.
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Others can give you a name or a number, but they can never tell you who you really are. That is something you yourself can only discover from within.
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May God prevent us from becoming “right-thinking men”-that is to say men who agree perfectly with their own police.
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In Silence God ceases to be an object and becomes an experience.
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When your tongue is silent, you can rest in the silence of the forest. When your imagination is silent, the forest speaks to you. It tells you of its unreality and of the Reality of God. But when your mind is silent, then the forest suddenly becomes magnificently real and blazes transparently with the Reality of God.
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The greatest need of our time is to clean out the enormous mass of mental and emotional rubbish that clutters our minds.
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