By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
SYDNEY J. HARRISAn idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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