Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
SYDNEY J. HARRISThe public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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Life is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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