What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
SYDNEY J. HARRISThe best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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The loner may be respected, but he is always resented by his colleagues, for he seems to be passing a critical judgment on them, when he may be simply making a limiting statement about himself.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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