There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
SYDNEY J. HARRISBeing yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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Almost every man looks more so in a belted trench coat.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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And to assert defensively at the outset that he is happily married, the father of four children and the one-time adornment of his college boxing, track and tennis teams.
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It’s odd, and a little unsettling, to reflect upon the fact that English is the only major language in which “I” is capitalized; in many other languages “You” is capitalized and the “i” is lower case.” —
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