Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
SYDNEY J. HARRISA loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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Never let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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Many people know how to work hard; many others know how to play well; but the rarest talent in the world is the ability to introduce elements of playfulness into work, and to put some constructive labor into our leisure.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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