By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
SYDNEY J. HARRISA loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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Many people know how to work hard; many others know how to play well; but the rarest talent in the world is the ability to introduce elements of playfulness into work, and to put some constructive labor into our leisure.
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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Skepticism is not an end in itself; it is a tool for the discovery of truths.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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