The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
SYDNEY J. HARRISWhen we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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The loner may be respected, but he is always resented by his colleagues, for he seems to be passing a critical judgment on them, when he may be simply making a limiting statement about himself.
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A loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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Never let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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A man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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