More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
SYDNEY J. HARRISWhen we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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A loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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