By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
SYDNEY J. HARRISMen make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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The art of living consists in knowing which impulses to obey and which must be made to obey.
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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A man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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A ‘penchant for telling the truth’ can cripple a candidates chances faster than being caught in flagrante delicto with the governor’s wife.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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The loner may be respected, but he is always resented by his colleagues, for he seems to be passing a critical judgment on them, when he may be simply making a limiting statement about himself.
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A loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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It’s odd, and a little unsettling, to reflect upon the fact that English is the only major language in which “I” is capitalized; in many other languages “You” is capitalized and the “i” is lower case.” —
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