No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
SYDNEY J. HARRISNothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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