Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
SYDNEY J. HARRISNothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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