We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
SYDNEY J. HARRISIf you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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This is a lesson mankind has not yet learned. We identify, and stratify, and treat persons largely on the basis of their accidental (physical) characteristics, which have no deeper meaning.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
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Skepticism is not an end in itself; it is a tool for the discovery of truths.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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The art of living consists in knowing which impulses to obey and which must be made to obey.
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You may be sure that when a man begins to call himself a realist he is preparing to do something that he is secretly ashamed of doing.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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