Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
SYDNEY J. HARRISNever let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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As the horsepower in modern automobiles steadily rises, the congestion of traffic steadily lowers the average possible speed of your car. This is known as Progress.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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The art of living consists in knowing which impulses to obey and which must be made to obey.
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