By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
SYDNEY J. HARRISThe greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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As the horsepower in modern automobiles steadily rises, the congestion of traffic steadily lowers the average possible speed of your car. This is known as Progress.
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Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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Any philosophy that can be put in a nutshell belongs there.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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