We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
SYDNEY J. HARRISWhat is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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It’s odd, and a little unsettling, to reflect upon the fact that English is the only major language in which “I” is capitalized; in many other languages “You” is capitalized and the “i” is lower case.” —
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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