We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
SYDNEY J. HARRISWhat is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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