Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
SYDNEY J. HARRISHonesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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This is a lesson mankind has not yet learned. We identify, and stratify, and treat persons largely on the basis of their accidental (physical) characteristics, which have no deeper meaning.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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Skepticism is not an end in itself; it is a tool for the discovery of truths.
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The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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A winner knows how much he still has to learn, even when he is considered an expert by others; a loser wants to be considered an expert by others before he has learned enough to know how little he knows.
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If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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