Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
ROLLO MAYOne of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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What anxiety means is it’s as though the world is knocking at your door, and you need to create, you need to make something, you need to do something. I think anxiety, for people who have found their own heart and their own souls, for them it is a stimulus toward creativity, toward courage. It’s what makes us human beings.
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Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
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Creativity is the process of bringing something new into being. Creativity requires passion and commitment. It brings to our awareness what was previously hidden and points to new life. The experience is one of heightened consciousness: ecstasy.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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One does not become fully human painlessly.
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Forge in the smithy of your soul.
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We define religion as the assumption that life has meaning. Religion, or lack of it, is shown not in some intellectual or verbal formulations but in one’s total orientation to life.
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The creative act arises out of the struggle of human beings with and against that which limits them.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Creativity is neither the product of neurosis nor simple talent, but an intense courageous encounter with the Gods.
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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It is well to remind ourselves that anxiety signifies a conflict, and so long as a conflict is going on, a constructive solution is possible.
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