This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
ROLLO MAYWhen I fall in love, I feel more valuable and I treat myself with more care. We have all observed the hesitant adolescent, uncertain of himself, who, when he or she falls in love, suddenly walks with a certain inner assuredness and confidence/
More Rollo May Quotes
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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Courage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt but in spite of doubt.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
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To believe fully and at the same moment to have doubts is not at all a contradiction: it presupposes a greater respect for truth, an awareness that truth always goes beyond anything that can be said or done at any given moment.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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The essence of being human is that, in the brief moment we exist on this spinning planet, we can love some persons and some things, in spite of the fact that time and death will ultimately claim us all.
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A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
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Depression is the inability to construct a future.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
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